Losing A Loved one

This feeling is beyond expression, and writing about this breaks my heart. Its the feeling that no one ever wants to think about, A Loved one could be any human/pet dear to your heart, to whom you feel a spiritual bond with. When they leave this temporary world, they take a piece of your heart and soul with you. You never stay the same as you were in their presence. 


Death is real, but the fear of losing a loved one is more fatal, as it continuously eats you from inside,  you can clearly see that person/pet dying bit by bit and there is nothing in your hand, Time is running as fast as it can, But neither you can ease their pain nor can you stop the time to make them stay for longer with you.  How Helpless a man is ... You are already under a mountain of debits but still cant beat the death hovering over.. 

And finally the moment comes when all your fears come face to face to you in reality, the fear you were living for years is standing in front of as whole reality, you are in a complete denial and you become feeling less, you are numb, not a single tear comes out. You even don't understand what has happened. But as the time passes by the all the things things used by your loved one make you remember them, the emptiness you feel is undescribable. While everyone around you is happily cheering and partying for obvious reasons and you cant even fake a dead smile. You just distant yourself from everyone and get a tag of the most egoist person in the world 

After the immense emotional breakdown you are still going through, People come over to help you by giving their useless advices not realizing the heart break you are going through like

Focus on your studies

Get married, Have Kids 

Death is real everyone have to die 

Behave normally

Get over your sadness

Its over , mingle with friends, enjoy your life.

And you are just hearing those heartless advices, that means nothing for you. 

I believe these kind of attitude makes one realize that not every heart can feel their pain, and therefore they choose to hide their sorrows and feelings and keeping them inside makes them ill, sad, stressed, depressed and led them to such actions that might be dangerous for them as well as a society. 

I just hope everyone going through this pain announced/unannounced get healed asap. May the people around us get a few guts to let people freely express their sorrows without getting judged.

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